Story of a nice guy....
(and again...Im not emo..nothing happened on me.XD.)
Being black-listed from the dating community??Is that really always happens on nice guys?I wonder....Nice guys are usually those people who always treat anyone the same....and always considerate other people's feeling.....way too considerate until they forget to consider about themselves...and end up their effort gets us nowhere....an so.... alone in the dating community are just a normal thing to us already.frustration with being the nice guy, and tries to figure out if there's anyway to get the girl we likes, it's hard for us to make anyone to see anything other than, "a nice guy".
Typically...nice guys are those guys who more in having interest in someone secretly...we like to keep our feelings for our self and not to the let the opposite gender to know about it...why?....so that we would still keep our relationship as a friend instead of being a awkward to each other and ruins of friendship....why losing her or he because of our stupid feelings anyway....haih...yeah...it's hard to control though....
Girls put every guy they known in 2 category...1....Guys..who is their friend who they will never date..and 2....Guys that they like and would date.And me....are of course...in the num 1 category...Guys..who is their friend who they will never date...and again....the nice guy.......I always wonder...does we guys really have to be someone that popular so that we can be date...hmm......there's no explanation for that......but....I always believed that....if you're a nice guy....girls will notice that and appreciate that...but was it true???Does I have to be a popular guy or a jerk just to get a girl???....Tired of acting that we are cool to face the problems when we are hurt...always believe that ''if he or she is happy..we are happy too''.....puikzz.....I am not so into that...but I have too...that's what we nice guys always do...rite....so that no 1 will get sad or hurt...but only our self would know what we're thinking....
Every nice guys fears the most is the time when you have to face the reality of the person you like....is interested with someone else...the girl you always waited for....but didn't wanna to chase her...just to preserve the friendship..are most likely going off with some new guy....it is the hardest thing it ever happens on you...agree......when it happens.....we nice guy.....will only wish her luck,and hope it's true for her...cos...1 day...we'll know that she'll find love with someone new....and when that day comes...all we do...is to let go...and know it's hard to do....What can we do actually....even if we got the person we like...we wouldn't know that he or she will happy with us...so....end up just wish all the best for them...and hope the person will treat them nice....
When that's happens....it would be the place where most stories end for the nice guys...because...since we so nice....we don't wanna so put any emotional drama on their friends....and causing them to sad or trouble.And we just watch her leave...and told myself that it never meant to be...why???
cos....I'm nice.....
(photos are from deviant.com)
(photos are from deviant.com)
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