It's all about Love

14-2-2012(Tuesday)



What is love???...Love??...that's stupid??...or not stupid...But What love really is?We all know what love is....but do we really understand what love is??That's a really hard question.....Some have no idea cos they havent found it yet,some had married for many years and they have forgotten about it, or some never experienced it yet and or what so ever...the truth is,everybody knows what love is but they doesnt know how to define it...cos it's just more than just a feeling but just as real.

Love is about acceptance.What is acceptance?...Acceptance is an act of receiving others without any terms and condition.Love is acceptance.Accepting only the positive?Accepting that which benefits you.Accepting only the comfortable things?Blanking out the rest of the world....All this, is not, true acceptance.To accept completelyYou have to be in love! To be able to totally accept the thoughts, The feelings, the motives, the reactions...The difference of opinionsThe habits you disapproveThe problems and the pain so accept a person is no easy taskYou have to be totally in love! Just like the movie,"Beauty and the Beast"..the love between a girl and a beast is all about Acceptance.The differences between,race,skin tone,language,disable,or money etc should not be barrier for us to fall in love.Just like Beauty,she's fall in love with Beast and Beast too fall in love with her and they work things out by accepting each other...
Love is about being Selfless or unconditionally . True love is shown when you try to help a loved one to become a better person.Your Selfless love for them is shown when still deeply care for them even if they refuse to change.And,there are time when it's necessary to "Let go" of some one dear to you when they refuse to take the necessary steps to improve..some people would call this tough love...
and this love,usually happens on our family.The unconditionally love of accepting who you are and never give up on you.
Love,is when it's there and you know it.It's a good feeling if you can sustain it.But,it is the best feeling and the hardest feeling that your heart can feel because,when love is not return,it can really break a heart.But,I think that's a change worth to take.There's a ideal that love has to be like Movies where love has to be perfect and "AH ha!" moment there...but,it wasnt like that for me.Cos in reality,love is much more different than what you see from movies.Sometimes we take a shoot and things doesnt work out.Instead of sitting at home crying or emo.We should stand up and move on....and try again.Love doesnt have to work every time.
When especially,when we screwed up from time to time and we still do but realize that he or she is still there to be with us.Like we care for someone too much and you know yourself that whenever he or she is having bad time,we will be there for them.

And yeah,I will do...cos for I love her so much that I would like to share my love with her when she needed a company and just someone to be beside her.Sounds stupid?..hmm...Moving on...=)

We can Valentine's Day as Generosity Day, a day of sharing love with everyone.

Let's make the day about love, action and human connection, because we can do more than just cards, chocolates and flowers.There are many ways you can celebrate Valentine's day as Generosity Day. One way is to pledge to say YES to everything. You can say YES to the homeless person asking for change, you can say YES without being asked (putting dishes in the dishwasher), you can say YES by looking someone in the eye and smiling, and you can say YES by asking how someone's day was.

By promising for just one day to say YES to everything, we can create a ripple effect of kindness, make a difference in our communities, and just might brighten. someone's day.

Perhaps it's a true saying that love isn't just an emotion or a feeling-it's a choice!it's a voluntary commitment of your total self to someone.In relationship with that special someone,with family and your closest friends ,you show true love by overlooking petty mistakes ,forgoing judgment and by not harboring grudge.Love without limits and such as this,requires self-sacrifice and not the ability to forgive.you could say it's love that is pure...

Valentine's day will be a good day for sharing love with everyone.Love is the reason where...we wake up in the morning to realize we are in love.There's many types of love...self-love,romantic love,family love.There's love for your community,love to your society and etc.I think love,the ideal is here..............just LOVE.......share the love....

To all reader...

Happy Loving day....